One of the characteristics of the life in line with the spirit is to gently help those who fall out of line with the Spirit. It is a challenge for the people of God and requires the Love from God.
When we are in line with the Holy Spirit, our lives reflect the life of Christ. It is the goal of every Christian to be in step with the Spirit of God for He will manifest the fruit og love in our lives.
The only thing that matters is faith expressing itself through love. This is not opinion...it is what Paul said. Love is a one word mission statement for the Church who must get back on mission!